Sexual energy is the primal and creative energy of the universe. All things that are alive come from sexual energy. In animals and other life forms, sexual energy expresses itself as biological creativity. In humans, sexual energy can be creative at all levels – physical, emotional, and spiritual. In any situation, where we feel attraction, arousal, awakening, alertness, passion, interest, inspiration, excitement, creativity, enthusiasm, in each of these situations, sexual energy is at work. Whenever we feel these states of awareness, we must put our attention on the energy that we are experiencing, nourishing it with our attention, experiencing it with joy, and keeping it alive in our awareness
Sexual energy is incredibly strong. Think about the physical strength, presence of mind, and determinedness of men during intercourse and how quickly that's lost once they ejaculate. They fall straight to sleep.
What if you didn't lose this energy, but instead channelled and controlled it? This would give you access to an expanded state of mind.
One of the fundamental principles in Tantra is to avoid any loss of energy, but rather make it circulate inside your own body. The bodies of sexual partners are deeply connected. As you move your own energy, her energy field will be influenced and follow yours. Thus learning how to feel energy, control it, and move it is the next essential step.
Following are a few techniques for playing with energy. Try them separately before starting the massage. You will notice that, with practice, you will be able to control the dense sexual energy. Start with the ones that are easier for you to apply, thus they will come more naturally.
With time and practice you will see that, first of all, you will come to use the techniques spontaneously. Furthermore, the energy will flow more freely as your energy channels become unblocked.