Next, move your attention to her outer lips. Put a few drops of oil on your fingertips, but not too much. You want to have a firm and precise touch in this sensitive area.
Start by taking the outer labia between your fingers and gently and slowly rolling them.
The labia can also be gently stretched. This movement can be extremely pleasurable or annoying depending on the woman's sensitivity. Try it out and check in to see if your partner enjoys it.
The outer lips are generally neglected during intercourse. A lot of energy can become stuck in this area, so give it the proper time and attention to help your partner release tension and permit the energy to flow. This will help her to welcome more pleasure later.