Discovering the A-spot
An alternative area from which you can begin the tantric massage is the A-spot. It is located on the upper wall as well, behind the G-spot area. The tissue here is more soft, less rough. The skin feels different - not so spongy, more smooth.
Massage the A-spot gently. Ask her to breathe into it, and let your touch make the tissue smoother and softer.
The mouth and the vagina are deeply connected. When her mouth is soft and open and she is making sounds, her vagina will also be soft and open. As you are performing the massage, use the sounds of the breath to build arousal. Ask your partner to follow you and gasp out loud.