An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away.
An orgasm is the sudden discharge of accumulated sexual tension, resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region. However, it is very difficult to define the orgasm because it is not only physiological but also psychological, neurological, and energetical.
Did you know that women can have various kinds of orgasms? First of all, there are two broad categories of orgasm: implosive and explosive.
Explosive orgasms dissipate energy. They are very similar to the male climax and ejaculation. Energy grows, and when the orgasm comes, energy spreads across the whole body, as if an explosion was taking place. The negative side is that energy is dissipated rather than channelled. Therefore, the woman experiences a loss of energy and sexual desire.
Implosive orgasms take longer to build and expand gradually. As the energy builds, it can be channelled in a positive way, to the places where it's needed, maybe toward the higher chakra to reach another state of consciousness or toward specific areas. The energy doesn't dissipate and sexual desire isn't lost with this type of orgasm. Moreover, the woman will experience an expanded state of consciousness if the energy is properly channelled. This is a longer and stronger orgasm that creates a feeling of bliss and peace.
We can distinguish different kinds of orgasms depending on the erogenous zone they were triggered from:
- Vaginal entrance
It is usually said that women are either clitoral or vaginal, depending on what kind of orgasms they have. Most women can absolutely get all the orgasms above, and yoni massage is a wonderful tool to awaken the orgasmic potential of a woman.
This climax is characterized by rhythmic and involuntary contractions of the muscles of the yoni and a warm, tingling feeling that expands throughout the entire body, but it lasts only a few seconds. After this kind of orgasm, the clitoris may become too sensitive to touch.
Clitoral orgasms are usually explosive. (They can be implosive too, but normally only advanced tantric women can channel this energy properly.)
After a clitoral orgasm, the woman will probably not feel like continuing intercourse, and she may not be satisfied at a deep level. The side effect of the clitoral orgasm is a drop in interest, desire, and connection with the partner. This can be explained as a shift in the hormonal balance. It's better to avoid this kind of orgasm in the beginning in order to open other pleasure patterns in your partner's sexual life.
The nipples tend to be very sensitive and are connected with the clitoris and genitalia, so stimulating them will cause an intense response at the level of the yoni.
Stimulating the nipples is a perfect way to warm up for the yoni. This can trigger contraction of the pelvic muscles along with a warm, pleasurable feeling at the level of the heart. Nipple orgasms can be both implosive and explosive.
This is the commonly known vaginal orgasm. It is an implosive orgasm triggered by the stimulation of the lower third of the vagina.
Many women believe they are "clitoral" and can't have vaginal orgasms, usually because vaginal orgasms require a long stimulation, more than 20 minutes, and intercourse often doesn't last long enough to reach this kind of climax.
The control of the vaginal muscles plays a paramount part in this type of orgasm.
The G-spot orgasm is mostly an implosive orgasm. It takes time to build the energy here - up to 30 minutes of stimulation. But the extra time is well worth it. Stimulation of the G-spot creates an intense pleasure that expands across the body, leading to deep satisfaction and relaxation. It triggers intense contractions of the whole pelvic floor and can also lead to female ejaculation, aka squirting or kalas in Tantra. Orgasms focused on this area can be quite intense and sometimes trigger emotional release.
Cervical orgasms are implosive. The energy builds slowly, even slower than with the G-spot. But when the orgasm comes, it is directly channelled upwards in a series of long vibrations, creating a deep and profound orgasm. This can even be a mystical experience.
On the physical level, the cervix is the entrance of the womb and is connected with the feminine essence. In the Taoist tradition, the cervix is connected to the heart, and stimulating it causes a deep feeling of love and intense ecstasy. This type of orgasm provides profound satisfaction on the physical, emotional, and spiritual levels.
Anal pleasure can come from stimulating the outer anus, which is full of nerve endings and quite erogenous, but also from deep penetration.
Anal orgasm requires a lot of relaxation and confidence in the beginning. The energies released by the anal orgasm are quite intense, usually convulsive, and hard to control.